As 2015 draws to a close, like many garden bloggers I have been reflecting on the past year in the garden. As a garden blogger who gardens with a chronic illness, ME, it could be easy to focus upon all that I didn’t get done. But instead I found myself thinking about the successes and realised that I’m feeling quite positive about my garden and what I’ve achieved this year within the context of gardening with ME.
In the kitchen garden first. I had a good crop of broad beans. Although I wasn’t quite able to keep on top of the blackfly, on the whole we had several good meals out of them, plus some in the freezer for winter.
The peas were a great success and I had to turn to the internet to find more recipes to explore ways of cooking peas. Pea and Sweet Potato curry was a particular favourite. On top of this, I also was able to save enough of the seed not just for myself, but to send some of both ‘Lativan’ and ‘Robinson’ back to the Heritage Seed Library.
Pea Robinson, to the left, grew happily in my planter in the driveway, withstanding frequent high winds that zoomed up between the two houses. Sweet succulent large peas, mmmmm.
Strawberries were also a great success, and bang on time for Wimbledon. I made up some strawberry ice cream too, and there is a little left so that we can enjoy a taste of summer in the winter. Plus we had plenty of courgettes to get us through several months, and I made up a big batch of courgette fritters to freeze, again to enjoy in winter.
Carrots and parsnips were another success and my garlic did very well. The non-flowering sorrel is the plant that just gives and gives. In fact, I like it more in pasta sauces than spinach, and as it’s a perennial, it pretty much grows without any assistance from me. What a vegetable!
Perhaps the star crop was the Climbing French Beans, which basically ran away from me in their attempt to become ‘yield of the year’. In fact, there were so many that I was begging people to take some off me, bags of beans off me. I succeeded in that too.
Turning to the flower garden, I kind of had to let some of the perennials look after themselves whilst I focused my limited energy in the kitchen garden. But here plants still grew and flowered well. Although I had to give up on writing my End of Month View posts on the Long Shady Border, the border itself managed to hold on quite well without much attention from me.
Flowers and foliage in the Long Shady Border this year included:
At the back of the garden along the pergola, I had a wonderful display of Crocosmias that lasted nearly three months and last years nasturtiums had self-seeded and flowered without any intervention from me at all.
Right: Nasturtium ‘jewel mixed’
I had sown some Cosmos and sunflowers from seed as part of my very small cut garden, and I got plenty of vases of flowers from them. This was particularly welcome as their flowering coincided with an extra bad period of ME; picking them was my only gardening activity in August. What a delight they were.
In general, the perennials grew and bloomed with little input from me, and this gave Kevin and I a great amount of pleasure. I managed to spend more time just sitting in the garden on my comfy chair and enjoying the plants, bees and butterflies. Yes, a little tidying up needs to be done before the end of winter, and what I cannot do myself I aim to get some help in to do it for me. Because another success was allowing myself to say it was ok get (paid) help.
Gardening with a chronic illness can often feel like one step forward four steps back. There has been plenty of times I have felt frustrated and upset about not having the energy to do any gardening. When six weeks have gone by and I haven’t tended a thing. When I’ve very occasionally wondered if maybe I’m trying too hard to continue gardening and that maybe I should just give it up.
My garden might not be anywhere near show standards, and some vegetables needed more attention than I could give them and slowly died off. But as this review has shown, despite gardening with ME, I have managed to garden and grow this year, and quite successfully too. I’ve been able to grow, harvest and eat some of my own fruit and vegetables, and have enjoyed flowers and foliage all year round.
I say cheers and bloody well done. And thanks to my readers for taking the time to read my blog, and for leaving comments and suggestions. Happy New Year to you all, and good gardening for 2016.
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11 thoughts on “Gardening with ME: a review of 2015”
Your garden looks gorgeous! Thanks for sharing the year-end wrapup. I still need to evaluate my garden efforts this year. Definitely plenty of successes, which help keep my hope for next year.
Blimey. Well done – veggies too! Xxx
Your garden is a real credit to you Julieanne. There are many fully fit gardeners who achieve far less. I hope you don't give it up because you clearly have a green touch, but I can understand what a huge drain it must be on your energy levels.
Bloody well done indeed. Wishing you a Happy and Healthier 2016.
Thanks Jodi. It's very easy to focus on all the things you haven't done and I thought it would make a nice change to look at what I have instead – I recommend it – very encouraging 🙂
Thanks Jessica, and to you too.
Thanks Anne 🙂
I've enjoyed following your blog this year – your garden looks stunning and you have achieved so much. Having a very good friend who has lived with ME for years I do have a sense of the challenges it involves for her so that only adds to how impressive your achievements are – both in the garden and in yourself (for instance, letting yourself pay for help). I wrote a blog this year as an antidote to a bout of depression that hit me last January – not sure if I intend to take it beyond this year, but I have enjoyed writing it: http://lifeinabackgarden.blogspot.co.uk/
Many thanks Jeeb. Yes, accepting you need help is often a very difficult thing but I'm so glad I did it. You are no less a gardener because you pay someone to help out. I'll go and visit your blog. Thanks for following.
That seems like a very successful year to me; you should definitely congratulate yourself. I hope 2016 is just as good for you.
I know I shared this on Twitter, which implies I thought it was impressive, but I should say here as well: bravo, bravo, bravo. The more it matures, the more it knits together and the lovelier it all looks.
very good post